So, your loco has piston valves then. That's helpful and
can be used to simplify your R/C requirements.
If your burner is continuously going out during the boiler warm up phase that may indicate that you either have a partially blocked or damaged jet. Replace it with a good quality aftermarket one as a matter of course - a Ronson #5 should do. Also make sure, as I mentioned before, that you wrap the treads on the jet where it fits to its holder with PTFE tape.
The symptoms you have described could also mean you have a leak from the superheater pipe or the first symptoms of one - though that would in all probability also extinguish the burner flame when you open up the regulator to run too.
Certainly if you try to run too "lean" on the gas it can be problem but that would probably only manifest while running and the boiler not producing enough steam resulting in the pressure not holding up as you run. Do not be tempted to overwarm the water you use to surround the gas tank to overcome any perceived gas flow issues here.
Blow through the entire gas system to the jet, starting with the tank. There are small apertures all the way through it, not just the jet, where small bits of debris can foul it. Don't be fooled by the size of the gas pipe, it's constricted in there. Accucraft gas tanks were notorious at one point for solder flux paste residue being left in the tanks that can cause some of the issues you are experiencing. I fixed my Lyn's affected tank by giving it a good clean inside with some solvent.
Another trick to ease the burner lighting up/boiler warming procedure is to fit a collar to the end of the burner to vary the aperture of the air inlet there (2 round holes). They are not always standard fitment on older locos. It acts like the choke on a car's petrol engine - it is used to enritchen the gas/air mixture.
All that I have suggested so far (here and post #4) has been passed on to me by a very well regarded Accucraft service agent in the UK when I have presented their locos to him with similar symptoms to those you are experiencing, some with the same loco type as yours. By the way, what is the ambient temperature you are operating the loco in ? Max
Gas burner "choke". It's a small movable brass sleeve, it has a small threaded bolt to hold it in the desired aperture opening. As fitted here to my C-19, but it could be any "poker" type gas fired boiler. And yes, the gas pipe and jet are not shown in place in this picture.
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