For information the LGB Mikado has a srung lead truck and gravity trailing truck.
I have regularly ran trains through facing points without any motor or spring switch to hold the point blades in position. The wheel profiles and flanges are very course and tolerant to errors. If you wanted to deliberately move the point blades with a model locomotive you would find it impossible. Even if the blades started to open, the big flanges and course wheels would try to push the blades back to the stock rail.
Could I suggest that the point blades are closing in on the locomotive wheels either due to flexing of the point as possible in full size but unlikely with our models, or the pile of the carpet below the point is pushing the throw bar.
The LGB Mikados are a fairly weighty beast and are pushing the track into the carpet causing the throw bar to move slightly. Try it with a piece of card below the point to isolate the carpet.
The leading truck jumping on the frog may be lack of spring, incorrect gauge or track flexing?
Alan